What a Sibling Doula can Provide:
- Preparation and Education: Before the new baby arrives, the sibling doula might help the family prepare the older child for the changes to come. This can involve age-appropriate education about what to expect, discussing the baby’s needs, and addressing any concerns the child may have.
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Emotional Support: Once the baby is born, the sibling doula provides emotional support to the older child. This can involve spending time with the child to make them feel special and valued, helping them express their feelings, and providing comfort and reassurance during times of adjustment.
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Practical Assistance: They might also assist with practical tasks, such as helping the older child get involved in the baby’s care (like helping with diaper changes or picking out clothes), which can foster a sense of inclusion and importance.
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Activity Planning: The sibling doula often plans and engages the older child in activities that are both fun and engaging, ensuring they feel connected to the family and helping to distract and entertain them during busy times.
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Family Support: They work closely with the parents to address any issues that arise and to provide strategies for managing the dynamics of the growing family. This can involve guidance on balancing attention between the new baby and the older child.
- Education and Resources: They may provide resources, tips, and techniques for parents to help with the integration of the new sibling, and offer advice on how to support the older child’s emotional and psychological needs.